
on love + how to make your house smell lovely
i recently read this post written by emily ofΒ ember grey called,Β to love oneself. i loved everything about what she wrote and could relate to it so much. itβs beautiful and i recommend reading it- there is so much truth. as i mentioned last week in my letter to my sixteen year old self βΒ loveΒ has been a big part of my journey. {ps: thank you again for all of the love about my letter} i have experienced all kinds of love- real and
imagined, deep and shallow, reciprocated and unrequited, deep and shallow, true and false, healing and quite hurtful. in my opinion, love is the most powerful emotion there is and sometimes the nuances of it and the way it changes over time- especially with
each new fall- is what keeps it the most important thing we in this one life. if you think about it, itβs the driving force behind everything that we doβ¦ and the one thing that can rock your world or shatter it in just one
instant. in my short thirty one years, i have had such a wide
variety of experiences in love- i have had my heart broken andΒ haveΒ broken a
heart {or two} myself. but as itβs said over and over β you canβt love anyone else
fully until you love yourself. despite all my relationship highs and
lows, the relationship with myself has been the most tumultuous and
continues to be the one i need to work on the most. itβs all a work inΒ progress; however,Β i feel like i have come such a long way- and will probably always be something that i strive to enhance daily.
imagined, deep and shallow, reciprocated and unrequited, deep and shallow, true and false, healing and quite hurtful. in my opinion, love is the most powerful emotion there is and sometimes the nuances of it and the way it changes over time- especially with
each new fall- is what keeps it the most important thing we in this one life. if you think about it, itβs the driving force behind everything that we doβ¦ and the one thing that can rock your world or shatter it in just one
instant. in my short thirty one years, i have had such a wide
variety of experiences in love- i have had my heart broken andΒ haveΒ broken a
heart {or two} myself. but as itβs said over and over β you canβt love anyone else
fully until you love yourself. despite all my relationship highs and
lows, the relationship with myself has been the most tumultuous and
continues to be the one i need to work on the most. itβs all a work inΒ progress; however,Β i feel like i have come such a long way- and will probably always be something that i strive to enhance daily.

nowβ¦ letβs make your home smell lovely:
Β burn them in their home as an evening ritual. you light the tip
with a match to start a very slow burn, and gently wave it around until
it burns out. it smells like a bonfire, with hints of cedar and citrus. it makes your home smell woodsy and
incredible.
with a match to start a very slow burn, and gently wave it around until
it burns out. it smells like a bonfire, with hints of cedar and citrus. it makes your home smell woodsy and
incredible.


boil lemon, rosemary, and vanilla to freshen the air in your home for spring β williams-sonoma.
barr co.Β

you can never go wrong with some beautiful fresh cut flowers:Β

ten tips for better looking bouquets by real simple

any other home scents you love?

lastly, please donβt forget that next friday, 2.27.15
is our first ever βfrench press morning- a #simplygreycoffeetourβ link-up begins- yay!
bright and early
so go venture out to local coffee shops and snap some photos β¦ or traveling?
go check out some new ones in various cities, use the hashtags, and get ready to share with us what you find next week!
for more info β a simply grey coffee tour
β¦
again, we are so excited!
please let me know if you have any questions!
emily and i canβt wait to see what you come up with
{loving the photos on instagram and twitter so far!}
bright and early
so go venture out to local coffee shops and snap some photos β¦ or traveling?
go check out some new ones in various cities, use the hashtags, and get ready to share with us what you find next week!
for more info β a simply grey coffee tour
β¦
again, we are so excited!
please let me know if you have any questions!
emily and i canβt wait to see what you come up with
{loving the photos on instagram and twitter so far!}
hope you have the best weekend!
β¦
linking up today with:
Karli atΒ September Farm
Ashleigh at Hill Collection

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Comments (12)
Jenna Griffin | Gold & Bloom
February 20, 2015 at 4:52 pm
I love simmering good smelling things on the stove to make our house smell good! Also, candles! Love all of these images!
nelle monaco
February 20, 2015 at 7:22 pm
sounds wonderful! and love candles π thank you so much, jenna! hope your weekend goes well!
Anonymous
February 20, 2015 at 5:09 pm
Love the words of encouragements and message of self love. Thanks dor sharing!
nelle monaco
February 20, 2015 at 7:22 pm
thank you so much! you are so welcome
JMO
February 20, 2015 at 7:17 pm
I love ALL of this and I am so happy to have found your blog! I wanted to thank you for your sweet comment too on my blog but when I tried to respond it said you were a no-reply blogger. I hope you have a fabulous weekend girl! xoxo
nelle monaco
February 20, 2015 at 7:25 pm
awe- thank you so much, jessi! you are so sweet and i couldn't agree more. love your blog as well- thank you for your kind words. they mean a lot to me. have a great weekend and i had no idea about the 'no reply' {i thought i fixed this} … i just changed it again…if you have time do you think you could check it again. i hope it's fixed and if not, no worries! thank you again! have a great weekend!!! xo
Elise @ Her Heart and Home
February 20, 2015 at 7:55 pm
Oh my gracious…all of this sounds so LOVEly!!!! π
xx
nelle monaco
February 20, 2015 at 9:00 pm
awe- thank you so much!! xo
Deena Simair
February 21, 2015 at 3:48 pm
Love these suggestions, I have never heard of Palo sticks…definitely checking them out!
nelle monaco
February 23, 2015 at 2:49 am
π thank you so much, deena and you should try them! they're awesome
Kendra
February 27, 2015 at 6:05 pm
I love simmering different scents on the stove! Thanks for linking up at Best of the Blogosphere.
nelle monaco
February 27, 2015 at 7:42 pm
sounds lovely!! and you are so welcome π
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