olive june: 2018

road tripping with a toddler | ten tips

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-twenty-seven weeks with my sweet summer boy-

in april, parks and i will be making another trip to the midwest to see family and friends. it's about an eight-hour drive, without stops. this can easily turn into an extra hour or two with a toddler, which sometimes means we have to get creative. parks loves the car (he always has) and enjoys looking for every school bus and truck along the way. however, he does get restless from time to time. hopefully, these toddler survival tips for a road trip will help you on your next adventure.

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"grow through what you go through"

questions to ask when decluttering

creating exactly the home you imagine is a big project. yet you may find your greatest challenge comes before you can even start. how do you make space for beauty and pretty things? maybe it's nesting for our june babe (although i would argue that i am a natural 'nester') but i have been in full purging, selling online, donating to local charities, giving away to friends/cousins, and organizing mode since the new year began- and it feels really good. i love this new mindset and how our home is slowly beginning to feel- it feels more like us: more cozy, more simple, more intentional. things i used to think we 'needed,' we actually don't- and it's so freeing. as a result, when i go to a store/thrift, i am buying more consciously and more carefully- pieces i really adore.

hosting a baby shower | five tips

letterboard | letterfolk

one of my favorite things to do for my loved ones is to throw small, intimate gatherings - especially to celebrate an upcoming baby. last weekend, my husband and i threw a couple's shower with two other couples for dear friends, who are planning to welcome a baby girl in early may. it was lots of fun and they were so appreciative of everything. most of all, i hope it was memorable! 

here are a few detail photos and some tips i have for hosting:

tiny morning light

"when life gets blurry - adjust your focus."

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"be curious. not judgemental." - walt whitman

shipt | groceries delivered for free!

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"slow down and everything you are chasing will come around and catch you." - john de paola

i recently tried shipt, a membership-based online grocery marketplace and i am so in love. through a convenient app, shipt offers a quality, personalized grocery experience by delivering fresh foods and household essentials from target / stores to your doorstep. my first experience was wonderful and i am so excited about how much time i am going to save, thanks to this service. are you interested in getting your groceries for free, too? scroll down to the bottom of this post for a special link to get $10 in free groceries and two weeks free delivery. 

weekend snapshots | mr. and mrs.

"the people we surround ourselves with either raise or lower our standards. they either help us to become the-best-version-of-ourselves or encourage us to become lesser versions of ourselves. we become like our friends. no man becomes great on his own. no woman becomes great on her own. the people around them help to make them great. we all need people in our lives who raise our standards, remind us of our essential purpose, and challenge us to become the-best-versions-of-ourselves." - matthew kelly 

a baby product | summer infant baby pixel 5.0 inch touchscreen color video monitor

thank you to Summer Infant for kindly sponsoring this post. all opinions are 100% honest & completely my own.
 as we start to plan for a new baby boy this summer, i plan to share some of my favorite newborn + toddler products with you all along the way. this stage, the planning and getting ready for a new sweet little one, is so exciting for me. 

today i am sharing my favorite baby monitor from summer infant. it is the baby pixel 5.0 inch touchscreen color video monitor. there are so many things that i love about this monitor, but most of all, i really love the sleep zone virtual boundary feature. this is a new innovative technology that helps alleviate some of the nighttime and nap time worries for parents. this monitor allows you to set a boundary box around your baby's safe space to alert you when your child exists their immediate surroundings. whether your child rolls into a corner or is plotting an escape, the sound alert will help you to keep baby safe. how amazing is this feature? we didn't have this when parks was a newborn and i am so glad we will have this peace of mind with our second babe. 

parks james | two years old

by far the most notable thing about you, one i hope will stay forever, is how delightful you are. you are so spirited, easygoing, and happy. friends, your teachers, other moms- so many people comment on what a joy you are. i wish i could take credit for this but your personality, my love, has been all you from the start. you were born with kind eyes- i saw them the very first time i looked at you.

valentine's day | gift + date ideas

"late spring" from felicity part II called Love

Finally the world is beginning
to change, its fevers mounting,
its leaves unfolding.
and the mockingbirds find
ample reason and breath to fashion
new songs. They do. You can 
count on it. 
As for lovers, they are discovering
new ways to love. Listen, their windows are open.
You can hear them laughing.
Without spring who knows what would happen.
A lot of nothing, I suppose.
The Leaves are in all in motion now
the way a young boy rows and rows
in his wooden boat, just to get anywhere. 
Late, late, but now lovely and lovelier.
And the two of us, together- a part of it.
-mary oliver-

in our home | practicing hygge

"the true secret of happiness lies in taking a genuine interest in all the details of daily life." 
- william morris

our gender reveal | boy or girl

"and she loved a baby boy so much- even more than she loved herself."
// the giving tree

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i literally melted yesterday when i got to 'meet' our second baby at the twenty-week ultrasound. he/she was very active/wiggly and unlike big brother, is measuring on the mark and is not super huge (yet!) parks was almost ten pounds and was measuring three weeks ahead at this appointment / august 2015. i am just so thankful that our sweet baby is healthy and is doing well. 

thrifting | what i look for

last weekend i went thrifting both on friday evening- solo (it's one of my favorite ways to take a mom-time-out) and then on saturday morning with my boys after some pancakes and a veggie egg benedict at a local cafe. parks is a really good stroller baby and my husband doesn't mind walking around, in fact i think he really enjoyed it. my sweet husband spent most of his time looking for old vinyl records. i love to create a home that blends both new and old pieces into each space. here are some of the things i look for while i thrift. however, more than anything, i just try to take it all in- one booth at a time, at my own pace. although i love to spend time walking around alone, my mom is my favorite person to thrift with because she is very patient and loves to stroll for hours like i do (plus, she's extremely sentimental and nostalgic- just like i am.) when parks was first born, we spent a lot of that winter strolling local flea markets and reminiscing while i wore parks in my solly baby wrap. those are memories i will always cherish, along with watching downton abbey and finally enjoying some glasses of red wine again. 

valentine's day for him | with jord watches

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 valentine's day is right around the corner and today i am sharing my favorite gift for the man in your life. my husband is a huge 'watch guy' so i was really excited about getting him one of these JORD watches. JORD watches are hand-crafted from 100% natural wood and they pride themselves in exceptional design and superior quality. not only do i love the style, but the quality is excellent! they are made with scratch-resistant mineral glass. how do you all like to spend valentine's day / what gifts do you usually give? starting this year, we are going to start a new tradition. we have decided that every year we are going to order takeout thai, are going to pick up a six-pack of craft beer (i obviously won't be partaking in that part this year...) and then we are going to do games, play our record player, watch a movie- a night at home together. regarding gifts, i would be happy with a bundle of eucalyptus and am absolutely loving this cute heart top- but i am always happy with something simple; even just a card with a sweet note. time together is so much more important to me. however, my husband deserves so much after helping out with parks so much lately and for taking such great care of me throughout this pregnancy.   

parks' second birthday | dinos + donuts

this past weekend, we spent a morning with our loved ones celebrating parks' second birthday. it was quite bittersweet and i cannot believe that he is already two. for his second birthday, we went with a dinos + donuts brunch to incorporate his love for his beloved jellycat dino, moe moe, and his deep fondness for donuts- aka 'nonuts'. planning his party was a lot of fun and i truly enjoyed the process. i am overjoyed with how it all turned out and am excited to share this special day with you all. i feel like he knew we were having a party for him that day and he loved playing with the other kids that came to celebrate. this past monday, january 15, was his actual birthday and we celebrated with a trip to 'my gym,' dancing/playing with his #2 balloon, lunch at an old school burger joint + a strawberry shake. i also wrote him a letter that day, a letter to my son | today you turn two.  oh, your momma loves you so. having family and friends together while celebrating someone you adore so much is going to be one of my favorite past times... i just know it. and sweet parks- i hope you loved your little birthday gathering, too.

season | winter

i truly have a deep love for every season of the year- and the carolinas make that so easy. on pinterest, i started a series for my season love; inspirations for each phase of the year. here are my favorites for winter. i hope you enjoy... 

a letter to my son | today you turn two

"speak to your children as if they are the wisest, kindest, most beautiful and magical humans on earth, for what they believe is what they become." - brooke hampton

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"on winter's margin"

on winter's margin, see the small birds now
with half-forged memories come flocking home
to gardens famous for their charity. 
the green globe's broken; vines like tangled veins
hang at the entrance to the silent wood. 

with half a loaf, i am the prince of crumbs;
by time snow's down, the birds amassed will sing
like children for their sire to walk abroad!
but what i love, the gray stubborn hawk
who floats alone beyond the frozen vines;
and what i dream of are the patient deer
who stand on legs like reeds and drink the wind;-

they are what saves the world: who choose to grow
thin to a starting point beyond this squalor.
-mary oliver

favorite oversized sweaters

oversized sweaters are one of my staple pieces for both fall and winter- i am all about a good oversized sweater during the cooler months of the year. most of the time, i find them to be both comfortable and stylish- the best of both worlds. they are cute paired with skirts, pants, denim, or leggings. i gathered a variety from some of my favorite shops to share with you today. 

15 things to do in the new year

"i actually attack the concept of happiness. the idea that- i don't mind people being happy - but the idea that everything we do is part of the pursuit of happiness seems to me a really dangerous idea and has led to a contemporary disease in Western society, which is a fear of sadness. it's a really odd thing that we're now seeing people saying "write down 3 things that made you happy today before you go to sleep" and "cheer up" and "happiness is our birthright" and so on. we're kind of teaching our kids that happiness is the default position- it's rubbish. wholeness is what we ought to be striving for and part of that is sadness, disappointment, frustration, failure; all of those which make us who we are. happiness and victory and fulfillment are nice little things that also happen to us, but they don't teach us much. everyone says we grow through pain and then as soon as they experience pain they say "quick! move one! cheer up!" i'd like just for a year to have a moratorium on the word "happiness" and to replace it with the word "wholeness." ask yourself, "is this contributing to my wholeness?"and if you're having a bad day, it is." - hugh mackay

christmas memories

hello, friends. i hope the new year is treating you well and that your heart is full of love from the season around us. it's a sunny but chilly day here in charlotte as i start to plan out taking down the christmas tree, the ornaments and cozy layers of decor. parks is back at wee school today after three weeks off so i am back to a little momma freedom a few times a week- and that feels so wonderful. christmas was everything we needed it to be- simple, relaxing, some travels, and lots of laughs. we were able to celebrate with both of our families and i feel full and abundant with gratitude. the smells of fresh pine and the explosions of gold glitter always seem to get me like a favorite warm sweater. i am always sad to see them go. yet, a fresh new space is always a good thing. 

it really is the season of renewal and hope and reflection. again, i am left feeling so grateful, for so much and for everything. but i am especially grateful for the family that has been placed in my arms and the chance to share the spirit of this season together. and i am also grateful for the One and for trader joe's peppermint jo jo's. 

a new year

"because sometimes life is so fast and so absolute that the only way you can change things is by actually shifting your life utterly and totally to a different hemisphere. you can't partially change. there's no semi-revolution." - cate blanchette

the start of a new year brings a fresh start, new hope, bright beginnings ahead. this year really excites me. this past year was one of many new starts; a year of more calmness, balance, being intentional as much as possible. as a result, i started to notice many positive changes and only hope to continue doing so over the course of the next year + while also adding a new member to our family in june. if this is your first or hundredth time visiting this space, i am so thankful for you. 

with love on my heart, i wish you all the happiest new year.